You really just got to talk to them. And if you’ve pissed them off, apologize.
Listen to what they have to say and go off that. Really. See if there’s anything you guys both like and have some bonding time over that subject.
Yes. I think it is.
We’re so independent that the idea of becoming vulnerable and dependent for a minute scares us.
What I usually do in situations like this is I just go and do it without thinking too much about it. Because like you said, we tend to over think things and back out.
But that’s just what I do. :)
Maybe you could find creative outlet like drawing or painting to express your emotions.It seems to help me.
Emily writes poems as her outlet i believe. I’ve also seen people use athletics as an outlet as well.
By the way:
Happy Birthday, fellow January 27th birthday people!
I hope your birthday was better than mine! Mine was kind of boring.
I can understand where you’re coming from.
The problem is that in order to make yourself more approachable, you may have to take a small leap of faith, as they say, and move past your fear. I’m not saying you shouldn’t be yourself, but just figure out a way to open yourself up a bit more than you usually do. And it doesn’t have to be with words. Stances and eye contact can also make a difference in approachabiltity.
By the way, if anyone else has anything to add or fix here, go ahead. It’s always good to have more advice on here rather than just mine.
Aquarians tend to be quite imaginative and “growing up” is often associated with is giving up your imagination for a more “real world” view.
I’ve also been told that I’m very child like in a way, for example, when I’m describing things with my hands and such. So I think it may be an Aquarian thing.
Some may be, some may not, depends on the person, I think.
Thank you. I know it hasn’t been too amazing recently, but hopefully I’ll be able to do something with it soon.
I hope those of you whose birthdays have passed had happy ones and I hope all the rest you have great birthdays as well!
I feel like you might need to give him some time. Just trying to jump back with him right after he broke up with you, isn’t a good thing to do. Especially since it may make you seem kind of clingy.
He may just need some space and may get back with you later on. Or he might not want to get back with you.
Best advice for me to give you is to give it time. If you try to jump back into a relationship with him, you could scare him off.
I’m sorry if this is so late.
If anyone else wants to give some advice for this Anon, please feel free to do so!
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By the way, this is the biggest I can get the text. At least with this much text.